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4:25pm Wednesday 6th July 2011 in Waltham Forest News By Daniel Binns
Nilgin Aslan, 51, who is herself a Muslim, said she was "disgusted" to be told her two daughters were not allowed in unless they covered up.
FEMALE visitors to a community event were ordered to cover their shoulders by the Muslim organisers.
Staff at the Noor Ul Islam Summer Fete, which took place at Leyton Cricket Ground at the weekend, are said to have told some women showing their shoulders they could only enter the site if they wore specially provided t-shirts.
Nilgin Aslan, 51, who is herself a Muslim, said she was “disgusted” to be told her two daughters were not allowed on to the public land unless they covered up.
A spokesman for the trust said only women who were dressed "inappropriately" were ordered to wear the t-shirts because it was a family-orientated event.
Mrs Aslan, of nearby Westdown Road, said: "I took my five grandchildren, three children and one of their friends because we'd seen it advertised and thought it would be a nice family day out.
"I was shocked when on the gate they said my two daughters and a friend had to wear the t-shirts.
"The children really wanted to go on the rides so we reluctantly agreed, but it got so hot they took them off.
"But straight away someone came over and said they had to put them back on again or be arrested."
Mrs Aslan says there was no mention of the dress code on posters advertising the event, but that organisers had clearly made plans in advance because bags of the t-shirts were available at the entrance.
"In total they took the t-shirts on and off again three times before we got fed up of being told off and left,” she said.
"They were just wearing typical vest tops, it wasn't inappropriate at all, it was completely over-the-top.
"It was supposed to be an event for the whole community, but the people walking around in the t-shirts looked like marked people.
"I think it put a bad name on all Muslims. How would we like it if we went to a community event and were told we couldn't wear sarees? You have to be tolerant of other people."
Hasib Hussain, a volunteer at Noor Ul Islam, told the Guardian: "T-shirts were only given to people who were dressed inappropriately, like those wearing mini-skirts or low cut tops.
"We did advise people to dress modestly. It's not appropriate at a family, Muslim event, although of course non-Muslims were welcome and many came.
"If a member of staff told them they would be arrested I can only apologise for that. We would welcome them to phone us so we can discuss it and find out more about what happened.”
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Comments(81)
Sean P
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5:35pm Wed 6 Jul 11
sallyma
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5:52pm Wed 6 Jul 11
sensibility
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6:11pm Wed 6 Jul 11
sallyma
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6:28pm Wed 6 Jul 11
sensibility wrote:yes i believe it is against british people if we treated them like this we would be arrested for racisim it is so not right
could this been seen as racial discrimination I wonder?
sallyma
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6:32pm Wed 6 Jul 11
Kareem
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6:34pm Wed 6 Jul 11
sallyma
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6:41pm Wed 6 Jul 11
Kareem wrote:this is a british christian country and all muslims do is allinate themselfs it does not stop muslim men ogle at non muslim women and if our council taxes funded this then we have a right to complain and it was a community event not private
You aren't free to wear what you want in Britain. Many institutions including work places, nightclubs and private functions impose dress codes. This was a private event and they are well within their rights to impose a dress code.
Sam Hain
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7:02pm Wed 6 Jul 11
Kareem
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7:06pm Wed 6 Jul 11
Smudger5412
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7:09pm Wed 6 Jul 11
sallyma
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7:23pm Wed 6 Jul 11
Kareem wrote:it is a christian country just our clowns in parliment give to much freedom in france muslim women are not even allowed to cover their faces so i think britain is tolerant and as i said it is a christian country so please get your facts right if you dont like it shut the dam door behind you, it is people with your mentality that causes racisim,and as previous reader said it sad if weak men get excited by a pair of shoulders then they have issues that need seeing to
I thought Britain was a secular country. Apart from inside churches where exactly does Christianity exist in the community?
Bentley005
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7:25pm Wed 6 Jul 11
sallyma
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8:25pm Wed 6 Jul 11
Bentley005 wrote:well said
Kareem,
I'm very sure you would have a different opinion if they banned the Burqa in Britain as France did.
Britain is multi cultural and we accept the wearing of the Burqa.
As far as I am concerned, it would appear that this function employed a method of reverse discrimination as the event was open as a "community" event. Does this mean that the function was therefore limited to a community that does not wish to integrate into British society?
Sam Hain
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8:54pm Wed 6 Jul 11
e17-reader
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8:58pm Wed 6 Jul 11
sallyma
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9:48pm Wed 6 Jul 11
Smudger5412
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10:01pm Wed 6 Jul 11
sallyma
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10:01pm Wed 6 Jul 11
Sam Hain wrote:how dare you tell me to have respect i do respect, my own child is muslim but i have educated him to respect other faiths and not to judge people especially on what they wear, i am sure like me most people would agree it is about worshiping god were does it say in the koran that we must look down on people because of what they wear or in this case what we dont please remember only god can judge so please get your facts right before commenting, this is not about racisim it is about respecting a countries culture and this is not british culture so i will politlty say do one, and it is culture that muslim woman cover up not religion and silly men who like to dominate women god said men and women are equal in all faiths have you even read the koran or for that matter the bible
Well, Kareem, you certainly seem to have stirred up a hornet's nest here! Isn't it interesting how little it takes for the mask of 'Christianity' (capital C please Sallyma - show some respect!) and 'tolerance' to slip! If Britain were truly either of these things this whole matter of head coverings etc wouldn't matter that much. I agree with you that we are, in fact, a secular society but we like to hide behind our Established Church of England and our Head of State who is also Supreme Governor of that Church and 'Defender of the Faith' to pretend otherwise - when it suits! This is all the most dreadful cant and hypocrisy. And isn't it interesting that we live in a country whose Head of State is a woman who regularly covers her hair with a headscarf and profess to follow a religion whose leader's own sainted mother, Mary, is always depicted with a veil over her hair? People can be very selective in their prejudices.
techiebabe
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10:54pm Wed 6 Jul 11
strangelot
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11:53pm Wed 6 Jul 11
frankroger
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12:10am Thu 7 Jul 11
sensibility
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12:48am Thu 7 Jul 11
AvidLondonReader
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7:20am Thu 7 Jul 11
lighting up leyton
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8:27am Thu 7 Jul 11
Sean P
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9:52am Thu 7 Jul 11
Sam Hain
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11:03am Thu 7 Jul 11
sallyma wrote:Yes, Sallyma, I was brought up on the Holy Bible and I have copy of the Holy Qur'an, in an authorised English translation. The point you raise about religious injunctions to cover up versus cultural tradition is an interesting one. My understanding is that it is a matter of interpretation. There is an injunction to wear the hijab when outside the home in Sura' al-Ahzaab: 59 and another to cover one's 'zeenah', or beauty, in Sura' An-Nur: 31. The first injunction seems quite unequivocal but as to the second, the question is how one defines a womans beauty. Is it her hair, face, breasts? This is where theologians can argue until the cows come home and hypocritical bigots have a field-day. Ordinary folk, meanwhile, are left confused, frightened and at the mercy of bullying zealots. And that's why I'm an atheist!
Sam Hain wrote: Well, Kareem, you certainly seem to have stirred up a hornet's nest here! Isn't it interesting how little it takes for the mask of 'Christianity' (capital C please Sallyma - show some respect!) and 'tolerance' to slip! If Britain were truly either of these things this whole matter of head coverings etc wouldn't matter that much. I agree with you that we are, in fact, a secular society but we like to hide behind our Established Church of England and our Head of State who is also Supreme Governor of that Church and 'Defender of the Faith' to pretend otherwise - when it suits! This is all the most dreadful cant and hypocrisy. And isn't it interesting that we live in a country whose Head of State is a woman who regularly covers her hair with a headscarf and profess to follow a religion whose leader's own sainted mother, Mary, is always depicted with a veil over her hair? People can be very selective in their prejudices.how dare you tell me to have respect i do respect, my own child is muslim but i have educated him to respect other faiths and not to judge people especially on what they wear, i am sure like me most people would agree it is about worshiping god were does it say in the koran that we must look down on people because of what they wear or in this case what we dont please remember only god can judge so please get your facts right before commenting, this is not about racisim it is about respecting a countries culture and this is not british culture so i will politlty say do one, and it is culture that muslim woman cover up not religion and silly men who like to dominate women god said men and women are equal in all faiths have you even read the koran or for that matter the bible
Honest Truth
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11:05am Thu 7 Jul 11
Honest Truth
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11:17am Thu 7 Jul 11
Honest Truth
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11:37am Thu 7 Jul 11
KHAN06
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Sean P
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12:47pm Thu 7 Jul 11
lighting up leyton
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Greg Peck
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1:24pm Thu 7 Jul 11
Sean P
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2:32pm Thu 7 Jul 11
Greg Peck wrote:This is Leyton cricket ground, hardly a place of worship!
I don't see what Christianity has to do with this. I've tried to enter Christian churches in hot countries while wearing shorts and been required to cover my legs before being allowed in.
I think it's sad that an event inviting the community to attend has such over-the-top restrictions, but it's hardly as big a deal as some are turning it into, is it?
KHAN06
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2:52pm Thu 7 Jul 11
KHAN06
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2:59pm Thu 7 Jul 11
pan
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3:26pm Thu 7 Jul 11
KHAN06
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4:30pm Thu 7 Jul 11
spacefan09
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5:31pm Thu 7 Jul 11
pan wrote:o please christian values like what exactly ? women walking around half naked,or isit drink,drink,drink,dr
Regardless of the event being private or not councils have a strict policy regarding usage. You can not hire council properties and advertise community events and be exclusive, sexist, racist or divisive.
We are a Christian country and those that say they do not see it are probably naive to the whole basis of Britishness.
Our whole system is set up and based around Christian values. Our Monarch is Christian. Our democratic process was set up around Christian values. Our national anthem is God save the Queen. Our second unofficial anthem is Jerusalem. In our courts you swear an oath on the bible, Our national religious festivals are Christian festivals.
Our social guidelines are based around Christian morals. For people to state that we are not a Christian country regardless of whether or not the masses practice religion is wrong. Its all around you day in day out like it or not the whole system is based around its historical basis in this country.
The English flag is one of a Christian Saint.
Its only relatively recently in history that we have a parliament of elected people until then it was the church.
We are liberal as a nation and desperately at our own expense sometimes that we try to welcome everyone in an inclusive manner and attempt to integrate along side them and hope that the integration is reflected back in the same manner.
This is really a minor issue indicative of a far larger problem. It would seem that whilst integration has worked in many places with many people there is an underlying ebb and flow pushing and pulling in different directions.
This group that has hired the community hall must understand that in Britain we do not have the same views of how women should dress. Accept it or do not run community events. To threaten arrest is outrageous. You could ask people to dress appropriately and hope they will. You can ask people top wear a dress code in a private club and refuse them entry into a private event without a problem as it is private however the dress code will be stricter for men than women.
You can ask for health and safety reason for people to wear clothing as there is a reason for doing so to prevent injury top themselves or others.
To instruct people to wear a dress code because of personal religious preference is in my opinion wrong. You can ask but that's it, to instruct is oppression in my opinion especially when its gender related.
I find women wearing full face cover offensive but have no option to accept it as different views and cultures I may not like it but that's it. So in my reasoning if my wife or daughter wish to wear an off the shoulder dress then that is their right. I would defend their right to do so and would not accept anyone telling them any different. Unless of course we were in a country whose culture requested it. In that case I would respect their culture and views. Until then we are in Britain and those that do not like it can only but learn to accept it. As someone else stated they can vote with their feet.
My Pen is Huge
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techiebabe
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5:54pm Thu 7 Jul 11
pan
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everoptimistic
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Sean P
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spacefan09
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8:20pm Thu 7 Jul 11
Sean P wrote:i'm not muslim but it seems to me that england is only a "CHRISTIAN COUNTRY" when bad stories are printed about islam...that's the problem here...most people just want to make a fuss about nothing...she was told to cover up ? whats the big deal ? keep it moving
Spacefan 09 your argument about drink and women wearing skimpy clothes is such a boring anti-western cliche.
This is no more connected to Christianity than Islam is connected to:-
Pakistani muslim grooming gangs, the high rate of birth defects in the Pakistani muslim community due to consanguine marriages, the poor academic accomplishments of Pakistani and Bengali muslims boys, domestic violence, the high number of Pakistani and Bengali muslim men in British prisons etc, etc, etc.
spacefan09
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8:31pm Thu 7 Jul 11
Cherrydrop
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9:16pm Thu 7 Jul 11
strangelot
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9:40pm Thu 7 Jul 11
Cherrydrop wrote:In that case Cherrydrop - dont you think clubs should ban dress codes - clubs usually have dress codes of no trainers or "smart/casual" -so that should be banned to. reading through these remarks and things said isnt surprising, Islamaphobia does exist - and certain individuals and remarks above has proved that it does,
I disagree, I think it's a disgrace that they had to cover up it's a public place and nowhere it said on the poster you had to, it was open to the community too. I would understand if it was in a Mosk, temple, church, or in there country but we are in London in our country it's discriminating and shouldn't be told what to wear in our own country!!!
KHAN06
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11:22pm Thu 7 Jul 11
Face_the_truth
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1:57am Fri 8 Jul 11
pan
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Sean P
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KHAN06
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Sean P
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10:33am Fri 8 Jul 11
KHAN06 wrote:Oh dear Mr Khan. You are now revealing your true colours.
how can people call Britain their country firstly you didn't build it secondly it was given to us by god so i don't see how you have the right to call Britain your country
pan
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11:33am Fri 8 Jul 11
Stidge
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VillageIdiot69
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Sam Hain
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1:34pm Fri 8 Jul 11
spacefan09 wrote:I think you're right about the whole 'Christian country' thing, spacefan09 - a convenient stick with which to beat others, especially Muslims. Pan makes the point that technically we are a Christian country, a point I myself made previously, but technicalities can be changed. All we need to do is dis-establish the Church of England and de-couple the monarchy (and hence the head of state) from 'Defence of the Faith' or become a republic and, bingo, we're a secular state - as, I might add, is Turkey, with a 99% Muslim population.
Sean P wrote: Spacefan 09 your argument about drink and women wearing skimpy clothes is such a boring anti-western cliche. This is no more connected to Christianity than Islam is connected to:- Pakistani muslim grooming gangs, the high rate of birth defects in the Pakistani muslim community due to consanguine marriages, the poor academic accomplishments of Pakistani and Bengali muslims boys, domestic violence, the high number of Pakistani and Bengali muslim men in British prisons etc, etc, etc.i'm not muslim but it seems to me that england is only a "CHRISTIAN COUNTRY" when bad stories are printed about islam...that's the problem here...most people just want to make a fuss about nothing...she was told to cover up ? whats the big deal ? keep it moving
SofTheHammer
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2:07pm Fri 8 Jul 11
pan
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mufcsquad
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Face_the_truth
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7:07pm Fri 8 Jul 11
pan wrote:Dearest pan, I have absolutely no problem whatsoever if individuals wish to criticise Islam or Muslims. I whole-heartedly welcome this and would encourage anyone to question anything they don’t understand or need clarification, without fear of being labeled an Islamophobe or racist. But one engages in discussions or debates it should be done in a civilised, sincere and non-bigoted manner - and this applies to all sides involved. It only makes sense. Why insult, belittle or abuse anyone?
Face the truth your attitude is exactly the reason why people get irate about these issues because your attitude stifles discussion.
Its not being able to express dissatisfaction by words that ends up fuelling resentment.
Freedom of speech and freedom of expression is partly what made Britain Great. That means being able to discuss issues that you are not happy with.
I think the paper should be saluted for having the balls to print this. Its a breath of fresh air.
The people fuelling hatred against the Islamic community are the people that stifle discussion, sign our choices away by branding anyone that raises concerns as narrow minded, pretends that multiculturalism works and must be advanced at all costs.
Integration happens naturally if it is to happen at all. Legislation of the issue and political interference actually has an adverse effect in the long run.
How about rather than offering open days for everyone to see how this group works the leaders go out into their host society and see how the host society works? They then can see how they can tailor their views into the majority that is integration.
Your back to front outlook is fuelling hatred throughout Europe at the moment and you are doing an injustice to those you so passionately wish to protect.
Look at Trondheim in Norway, Malmo in Sweden, Holland, France, Italy, Spain, Germany, Hungary, Romania all areas that have tried to accommodate but have had enough of the constant push, push, push. Not content with being included such as this group obviously has they push, push, push for that little bit more.
They could of accepted the woman's right to wear what she wants couldn't they?
Then there would be no need for the article at all.
Why dont you jog off down to the group and apologise for everyone and everything give them everything you have in a bid to be inclusive.
Just dont apologise on my behalf or my parents or my Grandparents that fought to give the freedom of speech and expression from narrow minded people that hated those that didn't agree with them. Those that were preventing freedom of speech.
To prevent people from expressing dissatisfaction or concerns is no different. Your attitude just does it with a smile and a pretence that you love all. Worse in my opinion.
Bentley005
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spacefan09
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Sam Hain
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pan wrote:'Struth, Pan, get a grip! A republic a dream? No, in a democracy it's perfectly achievable. A political party includes it in their manifesto and, if elected, they work to get it through the parliamentary process until it becomes law. I'd hardly be trying to establish another religion when I've already made it plain I'm an atheist, now would I? And I'm not trying to abolish religion, or interfere with anyone's freedom to practise their religion, simply calling for the dis-establishment of the Church of England - a perfectly respectable and long-standing campaign. As for treason, come off it! Calling for a republic is hardly a hanging offence in the modern age! If it were the Green Party would be strung up - and even they are only calling for an end to the constitutional role of the monarchy. As I understand their policy we could still have a royal family (and presumably the monarch could continue to be Supreme Governor of a dis-established Church of England) but they would lose their constitutional role. As to the UK, you might not have noticed but it's already in the process of breaking up. Again, this is no 'God-given' immemorial system of governance in the British Isles, it's a fairly recent political settlement which can just as easily be dismantled to suit modern realities. Until you sort out some of your muddled thinking on this issue I'll take no lessons from you on British constitutional history, thank you. (Gosh, what a long way we've strayed from the original story!)
Sam Hain Your view of changing the country as a technicality is a dream and why would you want to if you were not trying to establish another religion in its place? The Christianity issue is not important to you but is to others. Its not the small technicality that you portray and to state such a thing is unbelievably misleading and irresponsible. We are a United Kingdom so England Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland would have to agree. We have a Monarchy that is the head of our political parliamentary and system that can not just be "voted out" Have you never heard of treason? We have Sovereign nations such as the Isle of Man and commonwealth countries that can keep the Monarchy established. Apart from the fact that the United Nations declaration of rights of the indigenous people could be invoked by the respective English, Irish, Scottish and Welsh to prevent the culture, and rights of our people from being eroded. Then you have the European Union who really pull the strings, I can not see them letting democracy go to the people to decide to let them form a state that might reduce their revenue. SO apart from that you may well then find a technicality to sort out. It is unbelievable the amount of opinions about Britain and its set up there is, and how people know so little but have such strong opinions. To much attention is paid to liberal political propaganda and media spin
sallyma
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sallyma
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spacefan09
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sallyma wrote:excuse me can you wear what you want when you go to a club ? can you wear hoodies...NO...can you wear trainers...NO..when you work 9 times out of ten do you have to wear suites YES...could you turn up to work in a hoody..NO..NUFF SAID
for goodness sake this is britain we can wear what the hell we want it has got nothing to do with race or colour it has to do with our rights as british to wear what we want when we want and for a previous comment calling us you people we are the british people our country our rules like it or lump it thats how it goes my neighbours tryed to prevent me sunathing in my garden in shorts and tshirt and bbqing pork ribs are they mad and they go to that same mosque this is our country the good and bad and all that goes with it and as for british people only wanting to get drunk and show our bodies so what muslims are not god and only he can judge try standing outside some of the secondry schools you will see plenty muslim gang memebers and the so called good girls snocking boys and smoking in their cultural dress so accept it is evolution that is moveing on not britains being awkward my children wore what the wanted to a degree and they perfectly ok and went to uni etc so leave it alone this is BRITAIN full stop
sallyma
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2:35pm Sat 9 Jul 11
spacefan09 wrote:as i said this is britain spacefan if you dont like it go join star trek bloody fool i am british and proud of it and will do what i want were i want simple so go away with your negative comments if you are british spacefan you should be ashamed if not get lost BRITISH and so proud
sallyma wrote:excuse me can you wear what you want when you go to a club ? can you wear hoodies...NO...can you wear trainers...NO..when you work 9 times out of ten do you have to wear suites YES...could you turn up to work in a hoody..NO..NUFF SAID
for goodness sake this is britain we can wear what the hell we want it has got nothing to do with race or colour it has to do with our rights as british to wear what we want when we want and for a previous comment calling us you people we are the british people our country our rules like it or lump it thats how it goes my neighbours tryed to prevent me sunathing in my garden in shorts and tshirt and bbqing pork ribs are they mad and they go to that same mosque this is our country the good and bad and all that goes with it and as for british people only wanting to get drunk and show our bodies so what muslims are not god and only he can judge try standing outside some of the secondry schools you will see plenty muslim gang memebers and the so called good girls snocking boys and smoking in their cultural dress so accept it is evolution that is moveing on not britains being awkward my children wore what the wanted to a degree and they perfectly ok and went to uni etc so leave it alone this is BRITAIN full stop
Bentley005
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6:29pm Sat 9 Jul 11
spacefan09 wrote:Spacefan09.
most muslims in this country speak english so whats your point ? most muslims in this country pay tax and contribute heavily to the economy..(doctors,la
wyers,solicitors,chi
cken shops,post offices,petrol stations,) so again what is your point ?...no one should have to accept islamaphobia or any form or racism because they don't want to mix,get drunk,party,go to football games,go to pubs etc with most brits
Cherrydrop
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SofTheHammer wrote:softhehammer who ever you are you aint no friend or family of mrs aslan otherwise you wouldnt be direspecting her like that and saying them things about her im her niece and she has every right to say how she feels i would of done the same, i would of understood if it was in a temple etc but its in an open air field open to the COMMUNITY, NOT PRIVATE SO WE SHOULDNT BE TOLD WHAT TO WEAR.
I am a relative of Mrs Aslan & I can tell you for a fact that this whole incident was staged. Mrs Aslan set out to cause controversy & make headlines for herself by telling the story she did. This family event has been going on for years and she knew FULLY WELL what the dress code was but she went out of her way to put Islam in a bad light. Even though she is a Muslim herself - she is not a practising muslim and is known for her ranting and raving at other members of the family who choose to cover up and wear headscarves. She is entitled to dress as she pleases but she has made a mockery of the Waltham Forest Guardian by making them include this story when deep down there is no substance to it and all she was trying to achieve was get her five minutes of fame and stick two fingers up at her relatives who follow the faith & who she wanted to outrage with her ridiculous claims. Bottom line is SHE SET OUT TO GET HERSELF SOME PRESS COVERAGE. Its a great shame on Waltham Forest Guardian that they didnt do their homework and check out the credibility & character of Mrs Aslan as those who know her know she is well known for seeking attention & always looking to put Islam down at every opportunity she gets. I just thought people should know the truth about what she set out to achieve and what her goals were. Its like someone going to a Naturist reserve and saying ' I didnt realise everyone there was going to be naked'!!!! PLEASE WAKE UP TO WHAT SHE WAS TRYING TO DO - IE STIR UP TROUBLE FOR MUSLIMS.
Bentley005
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Bentley005
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Bentley005
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8:57pm Sat 9 Jul 11
Bentley005 wrote:Silly me. The beer has gone to my head. I mean Vivaldi!!!!
Now that is an interesting point wyers. Am I to understand that you do not wish to culturally interact with "most Brits" as it would appear that your comment implies that you are not British? Then what are you? Bye the way,I apologise for the error in the last posting. I was down the pub, had 20 pints of beer, was arrested for drunk and disorderly but fortunately regained my composure with a swift dose of Mozart and the Four Seasons! AHH culture!culture!
sallyma
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9:01pm Sat 9 Jul 11
SofTheHammer
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9:52pm Sat 9 Jul 11
Cherrydrop wrote:I wasn't disrespecting her but RESPECTING the rest of society by informing them of what she is all about & what her agenda was that day. Of course she has the right to say how she feels - everyone has a right to express their opinions and air their views - BUT SHE WENT TO AN EVENT WITH PREMEDITATED INTENTIONS & A HIDDEN AGENDA to cause trouble. SHE KNEW IT WAS A PRIVATE ANNUAL EVENT & WHAT WAS EXPECTED in terms of the dress code . She was well aware it takes place ONCE a year. I spoke to her before she went & thats why was not surprised at all when this article came out.
SofTheHammer wrote:softhehammer who ever you are you aint no friend or family of mrs aslan otherwise you wouldnt be direspecting her like that and saying them things about her im her niece and she has every right to say how she feels i would of done the same, i would of understood if it was in a temple etc but its in an open air field open to the COMMUNITY, NOT PRIVATE SO WE SHOULDNT BE TOLD WHAT TO WEAR.
I am a relative of Mrs Aslan & I can tell you for a fact that this whole incident was staged. Mrs Aslan set out to cause controversy & make headlines for herself by telling the story she did. This family event has been going on for years and she knew FULLY WELL what the dress code was but she went out of her way to put Islam in a bad light. Even though she is a Muslim herself - she is not a practising muslim and is known for her ranting and raving at other members of the family who choose to cover up and wear headscarves. She is entitled to dress as she pleases but she has made a mockery of the Waltham Forest Guardian by making them include this story when deep down there is no substance to it and all she was trying to achieve was get her five minutes of fame and stick two fingers up at her relatives who follow the faith & who she wanted to outrage with her ridiculous claims. Bottom line is SHE SET OUT TO GET HERSELF SOME PRESS COVERAGE. Its a great shame on Waltham Forest Guardian that they didnt do their homework and check out the credibility & character of Mrs Aslan as those who know her know she is well known for seeking attention & always looking to put Islam down at every opportunity she gets. I just thought people should know the truth about what she set out to achieve and what her goals were. Its like someone going to a Naturist reserve and saying ' I didnt realise everyone there was going to be naked'!!!! PLEASE WAKE UP TO WHAT SHE WAS TRYING TO DO - IE STIR UP TROUBLE FOR MUSLIMS.
strangelot
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11:30pm Sat 9 Jul 11
AyazNazir
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Stidge
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4:15pm Mon 11 Jul 11
sallyma wrote:Are you serious? That place has taken ages to be rennovated, after each event they've held there lately results in bulging binliners on the edge of the road outside it, and there's been two (or three, lost count) shootings there - Where one bounced off a baby's pram narrowly avoiding the hostile crowd that awaited outside.
well if anyone would like to come to the e10 club in leabridge road you can see what good muslims do they are not allowed to drink alcahol or smoke well someone is in disguise as there is men and women (muslim)doing that now sneakley down my street oh dear i rest my case oooops
mad-who
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4:17pm Tue 2 Aug 11
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5:15pm Wed 6 Jul 11