Cllr Paul Donovan on venting anger against public figures

Never have such sentiments been more needed.

It sometimes seems like we live in a world of aggressive intent, social media has helped foster these attitudes.

People seem to think it is fine to attack others, often online, who they have usually never met. The anger that flies off the keyboard is amazing . Some just seem to have to get the angst off their chest.

As a local councillor, I always deal with issues if I can and if they come under the council's remit. If they don't, then I try to direct the individual to those who can help.

What we are not here for is to just be shouted at. We are not here to absorb others' anger. Thankfully, this does not happen that often.

There is though growing anger toward those in public life. They have become targets of hate, as was tragically seen with the murders of MPs David Amess and Jo Cox in recent years. 

Cllr Paul Donovan has seen a rise in anger against public figures It now seems incredible that up until a few years ago there were no gates on Downing Street or elaborate security around the Palace of Westminster. Politicians mixed freely amongst the public. Attitudes only began to change towards the end of the 1970s.

The changes are the terrible conclusion of a hate-filled society, constantly looking for someone to blame.

The media does not help in this respect. It's always trying to nail someone, get them sacked or removed, individualising every problem, rather than looking at the underlying issues.

The behaviour of many in the public eye, as seen with the expenses scandal a few years ago and the constant stream of those in public office not coming up to the required standards, has helped fuel this anger.

There seems to have been a breakdown in trust between those in power and those they purport to represent. This will take a long time to repair but it must be fixed.

That said, the vast majority of those who serve in public office are decent people doing it for the right reasons. Unfortunately, the few bad apples tend to tarnish everyone.

Moving forward, can we all be a little kinder and understanding of others?

Join debates and discussions with an open mind, with respect for the other person, no matter how much you may disagree with them. Try a little kindness. 

On the plus side, we do read every day of incredible acts of kindness and generosity.

Christmas is a time to celebrate such things and look to be more positive things toward each other. Let's give it a try? Happy Christmas.

• Paul Donovan is Labour councillor for Wanstead Village ward, Redbridge Council and a blogger (paulfdonovan.blogspot.com).